Whatever Happened to the Art of Disagreement?
Have you had a real debate lately? I'm not talking about politics. That's an entirely different conversation. I mean a genuine discussion with someone who sees the world differently than you do. There was a time when this was normal, people disagreed, they challenged one another, sometimes they even changed their minds, and then they went and had lunch together. Today, disagreement often feels like the opening round of a fight, not a debate, not a discussion; a fight. Somewhere along the way, we've confused disagreement with disrespect. I believe electronic communication has played a role in that change. Emails, text messages, comment sections, and social media have stripped away many of the things that help us communicate effectively: facial expressions, tone of voice, pauses, humor, and empathy. Intent is easily misunderstood. A sincere question can sound sarcastic. Curiosity can be mistaken for criticism. But technology isn't the entire problem. The other p...